In this sleep deprived girl talk, I talk about how I learned to be happily single and dissect all of the societal + internal pressures I felt to be in a relationship. I originally filmed this the day before Valentines Day for my fellow single ladies so sorry it’s a bit late!
✰ CHAPTERS ✰ 1:38 a note about double standards 2:38 my history + mindset shift through high school, college, and now 5:22 ~let’s dissect my internalized misogyny~ aka analyze the pressure to be in a relationship 5:30 problematic ideals in rom coms 7:26 validation from male attention 11:10 fear of aging 14:48 vicarious success 17:49 slut shaming / stigma around causal sex 20:01 tips for being happy single
F A Q what’s your name? ashley what’s your instagram? @best.dressed how old are you? 21 (born in 1998) how tall are you? 5'5" what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese what equipment do you use to film? ➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (https://amzn.to/2Nb0W1z) ➭ 12-35mm lens (https://amzn.to/2JiSrz7) ➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (https://amzn.to/2QHfZBU) ➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii (http://amzn.to/2DfL4cZ) ➭ canon m50 (https://amzn.to/2Dp1bnk) ➭ editing: final cut pro
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